ANSWER YOURSELF

Hi! Everyone, 

Hope you all are fine..... 

What is attachment  ?   Unable to live without a person you love... or crying for the person you want to be the most..... There are many answers to this question.... But have you ever thought that the you are attached to is that person is also equally attached to you  ?  When you are being with someone then it's very important to know that the level of attachment you have to your partner... Your partner also have or not..... 

In my case I was only the person who was having attachment....  But I wasn't able to understand that. Getting hurt repeatedly by your loved ones shows the level of their attachment to you. A person's behavior shows how important you are in their life..... One should always notice that how the person is treating you this will help you decide whether they deserve to be with you or not. If you are hurting your partner, friend or any member because you are attached to them... So if anybody is equally attached to you will also not hurt because this hurts them back. My heart was raising questions to me that the person is hurting you repeatedly and still you are not answerable to yourself .... Because I was confused about the statement  "A person's behavior shows how important you are in their life" but at last I believed this and yeah it's true. Instead of giving a proper answer to myself I was ignoring the fact of getting hurt.....

 From my past experience I will suggest you  to please be sure and be clear in your mind that the person in whom you investing your emotions, mind , soul or life is equally attached to you or not..... Are they making the efforts to be with you...? Give yourself a straight forward answer. 

Take care 

Wishing you all peace 🤍

......... Yashila Barnwal