LET ME SPEAK : 01

Hi! Everyone, 
Hope you all are fine.... 
It's been a long time and we sat talked nicely, so I asked him to meet as I was not to carry this misunderstanding or mess which was continuously drowning our bond that's why I decided to have a proper conversation and to resolve everything....  

But according to him I was wrong to have an idea of proper conversation.... I was trying to mend things and fill all loops of our bond but I got a denial instead of a meeting.....  I asked him to figure out everything so that we can grow together happily as we were growing earlier.... But in everything I was getting denial along with a line  "You are spoiling everything by your words and your insecurities" , was I wrong to solve the things politely or I was wrong to decide a proper conversation to resolve all issues... Instead of resolving everything things got worst when he said  "Earlier you were not attached to me but now you are attached to me, so you are overthinking"  this line made me feel like as if I'm only here in this bond or he left me alone to carry forward this bond on my own...

Take care..... 
Wishing you all peace๐Ÿค
........... Yashila Barnwal 





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Rakhi Jayashankar said…
The moment you decide to get out of a toxic relationship filled with gaslighting, you start living a peaceful life. I loved how you have poured in the emotions. They are palpable and real
October 14, 2023 at 5:30 AM
Rose Pais said…
Time will heal you.
October 16, 2023 at 1:07 AM
indiacafe24 said…
As a friend I will suggest try to discuss and resolve things with someone who atleast cares for you and dont make you stand in the culprit stand without even giving you the chance to speak. The one who is not ready to hear you, trust me that relation is not going to run long. Its better as early you make your mind and heart understand it. You are beautiful from heart, you are confident, strong and bold... just be the one who you are and dont give chance to anyone to take charge of your life. Give your life the second chance to breath and enjoy every bit of it. Just have faith on you and no one, trust me no one can bend you down. I wish you come out of this very soon and continue the journey of life with more power and energy. No one can stop you... Go lady Go... Much love and more power to you.

Samata
October 17, 2023 at 12:00 AM
Ambica said…
i think you were right in calling out for a heart-to-heart talk. Communicating our needs is important. When we speak, we share, and when we listen, we change. It's important to have a 2-way stream.
October 17, 2023 at 7:22 AM
Messymom said…
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time with this person. It's important to communicate openly and resolve misunderstandings, but it seems like he may not be receptive. It's not wrong to want a proper conversation, but sometimes people have their own reasons for their reactions. It's essential to have a healthy and respectful dialogue to understand each other better, but if he's not willing to engage, it might be challenging. Ultimately, you should focus on your well-being and do what's best for you in this situation.
October 18, 2023 at 1:34 AM
Memory Flies said…
If he thinks in this way then let it go. Do not force anyone to have a conversation. If they want they will. When we try to resolve things , most of the time things get complicated. It is all about perspective. Change your perspective dear. You will be at peace.
October 18, 2023 at 9:04 AM
Memory Flies said…
If he thinks in this way then let it go. Do not force anyone to have a conversation. If they want they will. When we try to resolve things , most of the time things get complicated. It is all about perspective. Change your perspective dear. You will be at peace.
October 18, 2023 at 9:04 AM
Felicia Nazareth said…
It's concerning that you were met with negativity and the perception that you were "spoiling everything." It's evident that you took the initiative to reach out and address the misunderstandings in your relationship, which shows maturity and a willingness to improve the bond. Take care, and I hope you find the peace and resolution you seek. ๐Ÿค
October 19, 2023 at 3:02 AM
Jeannine said…
It's sad to hear this happen to you. Communication is key to any kind of relationship and when that skill isn't use properly, it leaves someone on despair. Know that you deserve better.-MommyWithAGoal
October 20, 2023 at 6:34 AM
Ritu said…
I'm a bit lost if these are musings or creative writing. Taking it as the former, having a heart-to-heart conversation is vital to resolving issues. Best to walk away if the other person is not willing to meet halfway.
October 20, 2023 at 11:12 AM
Madhu Bindra said…
It is very important to talk to share what is disturbing you. If the other person wants to avoid it, it is better to walk away. I am sorry you are going through this. You sometimes need to make tough decisions for your own self in the long run.
October 21, 2023 at 6:08 AM
Janaki/Ishaan Sai said…
It's not easy, but when there is no respect, you don't need that relationship. In fact, you'll be surprised at how happy and free you can be without this person and the pressure that comes with him. Lots of love and hugs, dear.
October 21, 2023 at 9:10 AM
sivaranjini said…
This was truly a courageous act to talk about emotions and denial in a relationship and walk over it boldly.
October 21, 2023 at 10:23 AM
Harjeet Kaur said…
The right way is to resolve it. That's why they say any fight between partners should be resolved before going to bed. You are right in speaking and discussing things rather than finding later that it indeed was a mismatch. You are lucky if you got out of it before commitment. You will find someone who will value your viewpoint. God Bless
October 22, 2023 at 5:23 AM
Karen said…
Heart to heart communication is very important and I am glad you did. Time will surely heal you.
October 23, 2023 at 7:33 AM
Monidipa said…
Been there, done that. I know its incredibly hard but once you know you are in a toxic relationship and you are ready to get out of it, love yourself more, there you go!
October 24, 2023 at 2:02 PM
A Lady Lawyer said…
Awww I know it's tough right now, but trust me, this time will pass.
Noor
January 17, 2024 at 7:35 PM
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